[Verse 1:] If you were hurt like I was before Ladies gon' turn up your radio Cause I'm a sing this one for all yeah See they complain about our attitude Talk about the things we do To me it seems so obvious They like it they keep coming, keep coming back For more yeaah, yeah You're always so quick to up and criticize I got my flaws and yes I realize I become so hard to deal with Cause this part of my heart is so tired [Chorus:] How many times, how many times, how many times Oohh I caught you on the phone with her How many times, how many times, how many times Did I take you back and you broke my heart Oh this song know how I feel You betrayed my love Oohh and the moral of the story is How many times How many times [Verse 2:] Our sister, our sister Mary (real love) she used to tell us about this in the 90′s I used to say that'll never be no never, never me But it's 2011 and I feel I can't get any lower Taking out my anger on any and everybody that comes around I become so hard to deal with Cause this part of my heart is so tired [Chorus:] How many times, how many times, how many times Oohh I caught you on the phone with her How many times, how many times, how many times Did I take you back and you broke my heart Oh this song know how I feel You betrayed my love Oohh and the moral of the story is How many times How many times [Bridge:] How How many times must I cry here (I'm so tired of crying) How many times should my son see my tears (only 7 years old) How many of ya'll going through the same thing (Ooo) I become so hard to deal with Cause this part of my heart is so tired I'm so tired How many times, how many times, how many times Oohh I caught you on the phone with her How many times, how many times, how many times Did I take you back and you broke my heart Oh this song know how I feel You betrayed my love Oohh and the moral of the story is How many times How many times How many times do I gotta get hurt to know It ain't never gonna get no better How many times ladies have you ever been hurt And you know in your heart it won't get no better You, you This one's for you You, you This one's for you