She asked me out I thought there'd be no harm in dating But soon her eyes would cut me like a piece of broken glass And deep inside I felt myself disintegrating I then found out what it's like to pay for someone's past So tell me who's to blame for the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame? Is it you or is it me? When we made love at first it seemed like God was coaching As time went on it became a way to keep me in my place No more respect. No more passion. No more lovers doting Two people cursed. So pissed and sad It's written on their face So tell me who's to blame for the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame? Is it you or is it me? So tell me who's to blame for the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame? Is it you or is it me? I don't wanna feel this way But I can't stop thinking I can't stop feeling I wish that things were right I wanted to be with you But I will never be enough And you would never, ever, let me be! Yeah! So tell me who's to blame for the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame? Is it you or is it me? So tell me who's to blame for the pain you're giving me So tell me who's to blame? Was it you? Was it you? So tell me who's to blame Ohhh Was it you? Was it me?