It was not the flowers you never sent That won me over dear The romantic places we never went Not what let me know you cared The love letters you never wrote Are not what made me love you The sweet, sweet nothings you never spoke Are not what made me sure you were the one for me But all the little things we let slip by Tipped the scales and out-weighed All the other things we loved so well The time you spent away from home Is not what took your heart from me And all the boys in all the world Could never lead my heart astray But something that we never saw grew up Slowly in between And by the time we caught on The gap it left was much too big for us to mend And all the little things we let slip by Tipped the scales and out-weighed All the other things I miss so now And all the little things I just let fly Did more harm than good and hit you hard And oh I miss you now And all the little things I leave unsaid Still come running through my head Thinking they might change your mind But I'm not sure I would change mine I didn't know but you were right